Friday, September 21, 2012

Porn? What for?

Ever tried watching live sex feed on the internet? How about live teen cam? Sure you can say no but you see a lot of people watch live porn cam not to get turned on but to pass the time. Let me give you an illustration.
Last night, I asked one of my male friends how do you make a review of something you have no idea about? This is not to say that I never watched porn before, but as a matter of fact, the first time I was exposed to nude men and women was when I was in college. Anyway, back then, I was the only female in the room so I had to ask them to watch with the TV on mute because it was so noisy and I didnt want my landlady to hear the sound. I asked the question with one of the guy buddies I lived with before and the answer was pretty simple. He said: Well, why dont you watch it, with sound this time and see what you feel afterwards. He then advised me to share my experience through my review.
Fact is I have always avoided watching porn, especially when I am with my friends. Truthfully, I feel uncomfortable because I dont know how I should react, whether I should just shut up or keep commenting. Anyway, I turned on my laptop and plugged in my headset (to make sure no one else can hear what I will hear), and started watching couples having sex on the web. After the feed, well, I still felt the same. I was expecting to get turned on or something, but the truth is, I wasnt not  because I didnt like what I saw but probably because I had too many questions reeling on my mind.
So I sent an IM to my friend and told him what happened. He laughed at me and said: Well, did you think that porn is magic? Of course it can help get you in the mood but it isnt an alternative for the real thing. He also told me his opinion of porn: that it is raw and how sex should be. He said that most people are actually afraid to experiment so they end up faking their moans and still unsatisfied after coming. This is because they deny themselves the pleasure of enjoying the act. Well, truth is, Im starting to understand his point. Maybe porn is not as dirty as what most people think it is, maybe this is people are wanting to do but never had the courage to try with their partners because of their fear to be labeled crude, vulgar and uncouth. Reprinted with permission of www.private-shades.com

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